“TAPPING OUT” is how Airmen/Guardians are released in an orderly fashion from formation. It can be an emotional experience but remember, the AF just looks at it as just an orderly way to disburse so there is not total chaos.
The “Tap Out” comes at the end of the Coin Ceremony on Wednesday and after the Graduation Parade on Thursday. The Airmen/Guardians will remain at attention until someone either comes up and taps them on the shoulder or hugs them.
Just as a clarification – just because someone touches your Airman/Guardian does NOT mean that they are tapped out. If yours gets bumped by someone, they’re not tapped out. All they have to do is go back to attention & wait for you. It’s not like MTIs are watching and as soon as someone is touched, they’re considered “tapped out.” If they know you’re coming, they will wait.
WHO GETS TO “TAP OUT?”
Most find it works out best if they arrange who will do the tap outs so that everyone is comfortable and happy. This is definitely not the time to get into a tug-of-war over your Airman/Guardian. Some have simultaneously tapped out their Airman/Guardian or done a group hug to share the moment. Just be careful not to jostle the others standing near yours. Also, be sure to designate someone as the picture-taker if you can. You don’t want to miss that photo opportunity!
WHAT IF SOMEONE HAS NO FAMILY/FRIENDS COMING TO TAP THEM OUT?
Unfortunately, not everyone has family/friends coming to graduation. Our suggestion is to continue the AFWM mission of Positive Support & Encouragement and ask your Airman/Guardian (preferably prior in either a letter or phone call) if they have a Wingman who needs tapping out. It’s a great way to share the experience. If you are financially able it would be great to invite them along with you for the day. Again, just ask your Airman/Guardian and they will let you know.
WHAT ABOUT THE BAND FLT?
The Band FLT will need to put away their instruments after both ceremonies before you are able to greet them. It is not an “official” tap out but more like a greeting. We have more info on that here: https://afwm.org/life-during-bmt/band-flight/
HOW WILL I FIND MY AIRMAN/GUARDIAN TO TAP HIM/HER OUT?
Everything is well announced as to what to do. Just keep your eyes open and ask your trainee in a letter before they graduate if they know where they will be standing. There is also a map to let you know where your FLT is standing HERE.
PLEASE remember other families are trying to tap out their loved ones. Once yours has been tapped out, don’t block others by standing around chatting. They don’t want to stand out on the retreat pad or the parade grounds any longer than necessary. Be respectful of the other families.